I see you, but I’ve grown…

One of the most eye-opening parts of personal growth is realizing when old battles try to circle back into your life. It’s almost as if the enemy sends familiar situations, arguments, frustrations, or unexpected tension just to see if you’ll fall into the same traps you once did. But here’s the difference now: I see it. I’m not the same person I was back then. The old me would have reacted out of anger, pride, or immaturity. I might have snapped back, shut down, or allowed someone else’s words to drag me into chaos. But growth has taught me that not every action deserves a reaction, and not every battle is mine to fight. The enemy loves to use the people you least expect family, friends, or even co-workers to stir division or provoke old habits. And that’s why discernment matters. Once you’ve grown in wisdom, you begin to pause, breathe, and choose differently. That choice is power. That choice is growth.

Ephesians 6:11 reminds us: “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” When I remember this, I no longer take the bait. Instead, I recognize the scheme, guard my peace, and move forward with clarity. Growth doesn’t mean the attacks stop. It means I’m no longer blind to them. It means I won’t hand over my joy so easily. It means I’ve learned to respond in maturity, wisdom, and grace.

So to the enemy, I say this: I see you. But I’ve grown. And you can’t have me or my joy anymore.

XOXO Kaye,